Apathy Towards Zealotry Is Not An Option

I really don’t get it.

I have no idea why in this day in age, people would favor an offensive and arrogant display marinated in intolerance and insensitivity as opposed to opting for a procedure that everyone would have been more likely amenable (yes, I can be funny without being offensive) too. I’m not quite sure if I missed out on any details, but the last time I checked, the Philippine Blog Awards was an event that was supposed to champion Filipino bloggers regardless of creed, affiliation or niche. How it transformed to an exercise to remind bloggers to be steadfast in [our] Christian commitment and help bloggers lead us closer to You [the you being their god] is totally beyond me.

I find it hard to blame the organizers for this unfortunate incident. After all, I’m sure they didn’t proof read and review what the speaker had prepared for the invocation. Given that circumstance, the responsibility squarely falls on one individual’s shoulders. It is quite discouraging that a lot of people turn a blind eye to what has happened here.

Again, I couldn’t emphasize enough that I am not against christians praying in events. Although a lot of christians are considerate enough to concede that a moment of silence would have sufficed, a general prayer that doesn’t overstep the boundaries of good taste and sensitivity would’ve sufficed. Giving thanks to someone’s god for the nice weather, snazzy venue and notable attendance would’ve made it cool, right? Coupled with the speaker’s candor and way with techno-babble and manner, it would’ve still made for a rousing prayer that would’ve still left fans of the only begotten son speechless.

The speaker knew what he was getting into. There are only two possible explanations to what happened. Hypothesis numero uno is that the speaker was too intellectually inept and naive to even fathom the presence of people who don’t blog for the sake of forwarding the interests of christianity. If it isn’t that, the act can only be explained by the speaker’s voluntary, conscious, coherent, Glasgow Coma Scale score of 15 (shout out to Dr. Termulo) decision to recklessly and self-righteously disregard the possibility of having non-christians inside the venue.

Clearly, given the credentials of the speaker, the act was done under circumstances which are closer to the second scenario. That makes it extra revolting.

Though I find it very discouraging that a lot of people are turning a blind eye to how insensitive and presumptuous the prayer was, I’m really stunned with the way people has responded to my sentiments. There are real progressive minds in the Pinoy Blogosphere and most of them read my blog. OK, I’ll stop handing out compliments right now because I don’t want to risk sounding like I’m patronizing you people. :) I appreciate your willingness to share your insights regarding this serious issue.

Noemi said:

I am speaking for myself and not for the organizers though. In my advocacy, I never impose my beliefs on others. But I talk about it and share my experience and it is up to my readers to take it or leave it. We should always consider the feelings of the general blogosphere.

 

Bikoy said:

i agree. a moment of silence would have probably sufficed. im catholic, but even in school functions in UP, i discourage prayer parts in our organizations’ programs just to be neutral and fair to all attendees with various beliefs.

 

Eric said:

i wasnt inside the venue nung nag prayer dito ko lng nabasa.

i am a catholic. was educated in a catholic school, but i agree with you that sensitivty re: faith/belief should have been practiced.

a general thanksgiving prayer should have been enough, or at least a moment of silence.

If i was on benj shoes, I would also be disgusted.

I find it very encouraging that christians find the logic in what I’m standing up for. It doesn’t take a similarity in religion and philosophy to grasp what fundamental rights were violated during the invocation. The Philippine Blog Awards was clearly meant to be a secular event (if it wasn’t then the organizers did a poor job in informing the guests), and it’s utterly inexcusable for the speaker to take the opportunity to wantonly and self-indulgently alienate and generalize. It’s also great that agnostics, atheists and other free thinkers who choose to not associate themselves with labels are coming out of the woodwork to voice out their opinions regarding this issue.

As a parting shot, let me feature how one blogger argues for his unethical and absolutely emetic (shout out agaaaain!) premise.

 

This is taken from Jomar’s blog.

10. Father Cuyos is the name of the cool podcasting/blogging priest from the Vatican, not Cuying, (w/c is taken from his nominated PODCAST: CUYINGCAST). Benj and other non-religious folks must remember that they are in the Philippines and prayers before events are standard. THIS PRAYER w/c is so significant that I’d suggest to to get Father Cuyos as co-HOST next time–will go down (or better yet, GO UP) in history as the funniest and most bagay na prayer I’ve ever heard!

Did I just say zealotry? I’m seriously taken aback with this type of mentality. Prayers are not standard. The University of The Philippines (the bastion of collegiate education in this country) discourages praying before events that are attended by a diverse audience. Seriously, Jomar and his ilk (the presumptuous and bigoted kind) are the very reasons why religious wars happen - and that’s not even an exaggeration. RECKLESSLY CLAIMING THAT SHEER NUMBERS CAN JUSTIFY ACTS OF BIGOTRY, INSENSITIVITY AND INTOLERANCE IS SIMPLY NONSENSICAL AND ILLOGICAL . These people are the ones who are incapable of tolerance towards other philosophies and faiths. I find this post more troubling and revolting than the actual prayer.

It disturbs me that they think that their god is overjoyed when they trample down the rights of others. Pathetic. Some people are really blinded by their faith to the point of madness.

I think encapsulates almost everything that I need to say. Thank you Tess for taking time to actually verbalize it. I don’t have the patience to sanitize things when logic is under attack.

This discussion is never meant to slight the great efforts made by those who organized and volunteered for the Philippine Blog Awards. The issue was raised so that the next Blogger event could be improved, based on the experiences learned from PBA. If it wasn’t voiced out, I’m 100% sure it will happen again the next time.

The mood of some of the commenters in this discussion reminded me of something I experienced in medical school. I attended the Royal Pontifical University of Santo Tomas. And, of course, being a Catholic University, almost all classes were started with a prayer. That is to be expected and those who aren’t Christians just have to put up with it because they’ve accepted to study there. However, there was that once time during class when one non-Christian remained seated during the entire prayer (prayers in that university are made standing up). The professor noticed it and, after the prayer, called him to stand up and reprimanded him in front of the whole class for having disrespected the prayer.

That incident reminded me how non-Christians can be treated in this society predominated by Christians.

If I may say, Christians do forget most of the times that not everybody share their beliefs. And Christians do wonder at what rights did they trample on? Most just don’t realize that they hurt somebody because some things have been so ingrained that they’re almost automatic. Like saying that prayers are standard. Of course not. It’s just that we’re in a society that are composed of mostly Christians that’s why we feel that prayers are part of the S.O.P. of daily living.

Like what Shari might have perhaps done, I just tuned out the prayer and just forget about it. But certainly we cannot blame people like Benj for having to voice out their concerns. And no, it isn’t an attack on the beliefs of Christians.

Simply having those who don’t believe in prayers walk out or tune out is not the correct solution for it. Such actions are simply meant to exclude people further. As others have also commented, a moment of silence in place of an invocation should be done next time. In this way, everybody’s need could be addressed: those who need to pray can pray and those who need not can simply just let their minds wander.

So, it isn’t simply bowing down to the fact that most of the bloggers are Christians and those who are non-Christians should adjust to the needs of the majority. The Blog Awards event is not a religious event. It is an event for bloggers, period. So hopefully next time this would be remembered.

As for the call for volunteers, there are just some, though they want to, who just can’t be physically there and help out with organizing the events. But that’s why people throw out ideas so that, at least, in that way, they could help, if not physically, by sharing whatever they have in mind that they think can improve the blog events.

This has been a heated discussion and I hope everybody would simmer down, as this is only an exchange of ideas, not attacks on personal and religious beliefs.

 

Lastly, I appreciate those who took time to link to my entries.

Manolo

Shari

Pierre

L.A.

Michael

PinoyBlurker

 

In other news, its going to be my birthday in a few hours! Woohoo!

And wow, this is quite a way to jump start my bid for next year’s awards. Talk about blogging yourself out of the running in one day!

 

 

 

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